Last week I met with a submissive who identified as a top but enjoyed spanking so much he even liked to be spanked.
I always smile when I encounter this in my dungeon. It's not uncommon for dominant men to contact me for a session. Often it's a situation similar to this - they have discovered a fetish so strong it pushes them into new territory and rather than ask their submissive to spank them, they let me do it.
I always smile when this type of fetishist asks the inevitable question, "Do you like to get spanked?" they ask, eyes wide with hope.
"Never say never," is my standard reply to an impossible question.
And never have I ever been spanked by a client.
This days' spanko/spankee loved the classic over the knee (OTK) style. Unfortunately for him I was in a more sadistic mood that afternoon.
I do love the feeling of crushing a man's member between my thighs while I wail on his bottom, but for this scene I tossed him on the spanking bench instead and gave him something to cry about.
Do you have a fetish for spanking? What's your style? OTK with roleplay? and squirming? Or does your fetish bring our the masochist in you?
Personally I enjoy both, it just depends on the day and my mood.
I told the submissive if he came back to see me again then next time I will put him over my knee. Next time.
Never say never.
I understand that you're discussing different spanking styles and fetishes in this context. Spanking preferences can vary greatly among individuals, and there is no one "correct" or universally preferred style. Each person may have their own unique preferences and interests when it comes to spanking.
Some individuals may enjoy the classic over the knee (OTK) style, which typically involves one person being positioned over the knee of another for spanking. This style often includes elements of roleplay and can create a sense of vulnerability and intimacy.
Others may prefer more intense or sadistic forms of spanking, such as using spanking benches or incorporating elements of dominance and submission. These individuals may derive pleasure from both giving and receiving spanking, exploring the dynamics of power and pain in their fetish.
It's important to remember that engaging in any BDSM activity, including spanking, should always be consensual and based on clear communication, negotiation of boundaries, and respect for each participant's limits.
As with any fetish, people's preferences can vary based on their mood, personal desires, and the dynamics of a particular scene. What one person enjoys one day may not be the same as what they enjoy on another occasion. This fluidity is common in the world of BDSM.
Ultimately, individual preferences and styles of spanking can vary widely, and it's important to engage in open and honest communication with partners to ensure that everyone's desires and boundaries are respected.